For me, the most stunning aspect of faith is grace. Grace is that unmerited, incautious favor of God that most of us never tire hearing about. There is just something about it—whenever it comes, it changes what is into something grander. That is what I love about the gospel. It is a message of grace, and because of that, wherever it goes, it brings change.

But some groups who call themselves “grace” people make me nervous. I get the feeling that they spell grace g-r-e-a-s-e. They don’t talk about grace as something that changes them as much as something that lets them slide by with whatever they feel like doing—even sinful things. But grace yields freedom from sin, not freedom to sin. Justifying sin by appealing to grace sours the grace experience by turning it into something God never intended to be. 

I’m convinced that the people who use grace as an excuse to sin aren’t experiencing it at all. They may have experienced grace in the past or they may have just heard about it, but they are not experiencing it now. You can’t experience the grace of God and continue being bad. Grace doesn’t promise immunity from sinful consequences; it promises power to live above sin.

It’s true that if you miss grace to prevent sin, you can tap into grace that brings the forgiveness of sin. God has a very effective 911 system. But using 911 is not a thing to boast about. And if you use 911 flippantly, you get in trouble. Grace is never a license to sin.

In fact, it is the grace of God that brings judgment for sin. Just as God tells us to discipline our children, and that if we do not discipline them, we, in effect, hate them (Prov. 13:24), He disciplines us too—because he loves us. But there are folks in the “grace” crowd that think God never does anything quite so negative.

But I think they might have God confused with Grandpa. Grandpa tends to overlook wrongdoing, and he always avoids confrontation. Grandpa’s goal at the end of the day is only that all had a good time. But Jesus didn’t tell us to pray, “Our Grandpa in heaven.” He said to pray, “Our Father in heaven” (Matt. 6:9).

Scripture is clear. God is our Father, and He “disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness” (Heb. 12:10). God doesn’t just love us with a smile while He distributes playful impulses of joy into our souls. He sometimes gets hard with us and treats us in a way that doesn’t seem “pleasant at the time, but painful” (v.11). We are His sons and daughters. You and I matter. He isn’t kidding about destiny. He consistently asks us to be part of His salvation history. We are called to a purpose.

If we say no to His plan, He will back off. That is a scary enterprise. When Israel said no to God, He said of them, “My people would not listen to me; Israel would not submit to me. So I gave them over to their stubborn hearts to follow their own devices” (Ps. 81:11–12).

JUDGMENT
God is not the one who makes life ugly for us. But there are times He backs off and our own ugliness takes over. It’s called “judgment.” Judgment is not something God does to us as much as it is something He lets happen to us.

Jesus claimed that the Father doesn’t judge people (John 5:22). Judgment exists, but Jesus said it was His “word” that judged people (John 12:48). He talked about “the person who hears my words but does not keep them” (v. 47) and said he would be judged by the very words he spoke—not by the person of God. That means God is never out to “get you.” But, like any good father, God will eventually no longer protect us from the persistent negative actions that we refuse to renounce. If we don’t repent, He lets us experience the harvest of our sin.

The good news is, God usually hangs in there a long, long time, shielding us from our own devices for as long as possible and giving us every chance to turn away from our sinful actions. But if we persistently resist Him, He will eventually let us experience our own way. Here is a scary text: “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6).

The idea of judgment is simple. God is trying to help us. If we say no to Him, eventually He leaves us alone. That is judgment—God backing out of our lives. It is the result of our refusal to submit to the person of Jesus—to His help and love. When we reject Jesus, we reject God Himself, along with all His freedom and forgiveness. Where freedom and forgiveness are absent, there is judgment.

That said, getting out from under judgment is a simple matter. If you have been heading west for fifty years, but turn to head east, the change is instant—you are now heading east. If you ever come to a place where you think you might be under judgment, don’t fear—just turn toward God. Instantly you will abort all judgment and find yourself back in the favor and grace of God. (Remember the prodigal son story?) Why is it so easy? Because what Jesus did on the cross carries much more weight in God’s eyes than anything you or I could do or not do, and as a result, the grace of forgiveness is never held back from us. As long as you have breath, there is hope for you.